Avoiding Sex Because Of Premature Ejaculation? Take Control!

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Avoiding sex because of PEBack when I was younger, in my wild, bachelor days…

I had the age and lack of responsibility to go out and have fun, the freedom, and looked good enough to get some pretty attractive girls (I’ve never been anything out of this world, looks-wise, but was good enough to do some “damage”).

However, I had a severely limiting factor = premature ejaculation and overall weak abilities in bed.

No matter how good my “game” was, no matter how hot the girl was that I “pulled”, I was just going to strike out when I hit the bedroom. This made me feel like a fraud… like I was false advertising… like I was hiding a deep, dark secret.

I tried covering this up with an overly braggadocious attitude, but in reality, deep down, no matter how tough the talk, I knew I wasn’t going to be the man I was portraying myself to be.

This prevented me quite a bit from having one-night stands (one of the most glorious achievements for the bachelor male)… I would instead take it slow, because I knew I had to “prepare” the girl slowly… and make her really like me first, before I broke out my sad performance…

But something happened in early adulthood… I manned the fuck up… I decided I was going to learn how to last longer during intercourse, no matter what it took… And thankfully, I learned some exercises to develop the proper mindstate to control ejaculation, rather than allow ejaculation to control me.

And I started satisfying women… I started giving women orgasms during penetration, and man, it felt good.  Rather than flirting with beautiful women, but slamming on the brakes somewhere along the line, and sabotaging my seduction…I went full speed, from A to Z as quickly as possible… and Z…. and Z… as many times as I could.

I had the walk to back the talk, and this made my talk even better… nothing to hide. I was the man I was portraying myself to be.

Some things I’ve learned along the way, as to lasting longer during intercourse mentally:

  • It’s not about distracting yourself with disgusting, or boring thoughts to prevent premature ejaculation… it’s about realizing what’s going on (yes, you’re having sex, you can see that and enjoy that), but not allowing your arousal to grow extremely quick… you want to keep it low, and control it, and keep the arousal at that low level before it starts it’s exponential climb.
  • Once your arousal reaches the finishing stages, close to ejaculation, you’re pretty much done… you can start and stop as much as you want, but you will still only be a couple of strokes away from ejaculating as soon as you start up again… you need to keep it away from that “quick climb”… don’t zero in on overly exciting thoughts and visuals.  Keep your mind strong.  Ejaculation control exercises and training can help with that.

If you need some extra help preventing ejaculation, there is another foolproof method: take an antidepressant, such as sertraline.  This corrects an imbalance of serotonin in the mind, allowing you to greatly delay ejaculation. I consider this like “juicing” in sports, but oh well.  Satisfying women in bed take precedence over anything else, in my opinion, and if you have to take a low dose of an SSRI to do this, than do this.

Shit, how many baseball players juiced up to knock home runs out of the park?  The glory Sammy Sosa or Barry Bonds felt scoring those home runs made it all worth it to them (regardless of the heat they’ve taken).

For more information on ejaculation control exercises to last longer during sex naturally, click here…

Have a good one!

-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement
the ultimate sex guide for men… “male potency without drugs”


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