Some men have the natural ability to ejaculate and maintain their erection afterwards, until a next ejaculation.
This is a genetically given “power”, and this is the minority of men… most men can’t do this… or at least they believe they can’t.
Over the years I’ve discovered that the ability to stay hard after ejaculation can actually be learned by most men.
I’ve heard of men who’ve never been able to keep an erection after ejaculation, but picked up this skill in their 30’s… which is really quite amazing (with many of them keeping this technique – and improving on this technique – well past their 50’s!)
The commonly held idea is that the refractory period (the time period after ejaculation where it’s not possible to get an erection) gets longer and stronger as we get older, but a man learning how to stay hard after climax in his 30’s refutes this idea.
For example my brother has shared with me that he learned how to stay hard after ejaculation by “training” himself. Part of this training entails masturbating or having sex as many times in a day as possible. He, however, says he loses this power when not training.
I personally don’t like ejaculating in excess (due to the Taoist theory that ejaculation weakens you and may lower testosterone levels), and even without “training” I’ve been able to keep an erection after ejaculation on several occasions.
If you’d like to train yourself to stay erect after ejaculation, absorb this knowledge:
- Don’t accept the refractory period as necessary. A sexual therapist who gained the ability to keep an erection after ejaculation when in his 30’s once commented that most men he surveyed said they can only have one orgasm… but they all admitted that they never tried stimulating themselves beyond the first orgasm. Don’t accept the refractory period as necessary, and you’re taking the first step in the right direction.
- Even if you lose some of your erection strength for a little while after you ejaculate, don’t worry. The times where I’ve kept my erection after ejaculation, my erection slightly flagged… my brother also mentioned this happens to him as well. However, continue on stimulating, and in time it should come back full strength. Keep your mind as mentally aroused as possible as well… not easy in this state, but if you can keep some arousing thoughts or visuals going on, it can help.
- Consider “training”… ejaculating as many times as you can in a day, in as close a succession as possible. This trains your body to need to ejaculate more often. So if you do this a few days in a row (you may feel drained… eat your protein and zinc!), then stop for a day, you will have a big urge to ejaculate (like a druggie needs his fix)… then the day after abstaining, you should have increased your ability to ejaculate without losing your erection, in order to feed your newly developed “need” that hasn’t been fed for a day. Makes sense? Then apparently once you’ve seen this is possible, it’s easier for you to do it in the future as well.
- Cardio. Cardio increases dopamine (as well as dopamine receptors in your brain), one of the main neurotransmitters responsible for sex drive. After ejaculation, prolactin (the relaxation neurotransmitter) kicks in and overpowers dopamine… so the more dopamine your body produces, the better the chance of keeping a sex drive after ejaculation (the mental, maybe even more so than the physical, is so important for keeping your erection after ejaculation).
Cardio will also improve the blood flow throughout your body, which helps with erection strengthening. So go ahead and give it a shot… if you got some time (and semen) to kill, you too can very likely learn how to become a multi-ejaculatory male.
If you’d like to learn how to keep an erection after orgasm without ejaculating, the ancient Taoist male multiple orgasm technique works… For more info on how to stay hard after orgasm (for multiple more orgasms), without ejaculating or losing any erection strength, see here: How to Maintain Erection After Orgasm
Or learn both approaches… and more power to you!
Have a good one!
-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement
the ultimate sex guide for men… “male potency without drugs”
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