{"id":381,"date":"2016-05-06T17:36:01","date_gmt":"2016-05-06T17:36:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mistermanpower.net\/blog\/?p=381"},"modified":"2020-07-26T12:45:37","modified_gmt":"2020-07-26T12:45:37","slug":"yet-another-young-man-overcomes-his-mental-erectile-dysfunction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mistermanpower.net\/blog\/yet-another-young-man-overcomes-his-mental-erectile-dysfunction.php","title":{"rendered":"Mental Block Erectile Dysfunction Overcome by Young Man"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mistermanpower.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/mental-block-erectile-dysfunction.jpg\"><img class=\"alignleft wp-image-12348 mob-only\" title=\"mental block ED\" src=\"https:\/\/www.mistermanpower.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/mental-block-erectile-dysfunction-300x261.jpg\" alt=\"mental block erectile dysfunction\" width=\"282\" height=\"245\" \/><\/a>When I was about 18 or so, I had some pretty crappy experiences with what you can call &#8220;mental erectile dysfunction&#8221; (aka sexual performance anxiety, aka psychological ED)&#8230; pretty much a mental block to getting an erection.<\/p>\n<p>I was with a new girlfriend\u00a0that was very\u00a0attractive, but not matter how hard I tried, I couldn&#8217;t get an erection&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>That was my whole problem&#8230; I was trying<em>\u00a0<\/em>too hard.<\/p>\n<p>On a daily basis I receive\u00a0questions from young men who cannot get an erection when it comes down time to have sex due to this mental block erectile dysfunction. These men often fear that they have a physical erection issue at an early age, when in reality, they are just experiencing a mental wall blocking their arousal.<\/p>\n<p>Mental block ED has a couple of different causes, but can be\u00a0overcome once and for all.<\/p>\n<p>I received an email from a young lady the other day, about the problems she and her boyfriend are facing with this mental block.<\/p>\n<p>I was happy to hear that they were able to resolve their problem.<\/p>\n<p>Please see our email conversation below:<\/p>\n<p>===============================<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Hi,\u00a0<\/em><em>I have a 25 year old boyfriend which i have been with for two years and we are very comfortable with each other and love each other. We both\u00a0have\u00a0high sex drives and everything was fine until he began\u00a0getting erection problems. He told me that he would get nervous just before having sex and thought that he would not be able to perform\u00a0properly. he then got a &#8220;head rush&#8221; feeling, which then lead to him\u00a0going soft within moments. As well as this, sometimes he would get erections, then when he is having sex with me it would go soft. naturally i would get upset, not with him but with the situation, but i feel bad cos i\u00a0know\u00a0it will make him more nervous. i try my best not to get upset. but what can he do to help him. i have said i am not going to get\u00a0upset\u00a0if it\u00a0doesn&#8217;t\u00a0work, and i try\u00a0making\u00a0him\u00a0relax but it just still isnt working. we\u00a0don&#8217;t\u00a0see each other much but when we do we both know\u00a0what\u00a0is going to happen, (sex).<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>oh and another thing&#8230; the other day we met up but we was out in public the whole day he was horny and he kept getting a hard erection,but the next day it was completely the opposite. he wants to have sex and he has the perfect opportunity to, but he keeps going soft. its like when he knows he cant have it he gets hard erection but when\u00a0he&#8217;s\u00a0got it right in front of him he\u00a0panics\u00a0and goes soft before\u00a0or\u00a0even during sex.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>we\u00a0don&#8217;t\u00a0really want to use medication because we have tried tablets like viagra and to be honest he kept wanting to use it. he will end up being dependant even if we only sometimes use it &#8211; he will want to\u00a0use again. but i know that this problem is to do with his mind.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>He smokes but said he will give up and 3 months ago stopped smoking cannabis He does not drink is a healthy weight.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Please could you give me some advice and tips or solutions for this. We would\u00a0both\u00a0be very grateful.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Thank you&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>-Cassie<\/em><br \/>\n==============<\/p>\n<p><strong>My Reply:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hello Cassie:<\/p>\n<p>The problem your boyfriend is facing, men all over the world face this problem all the time.<\/p>\n<p>He is placing too much pressure on the situation, and as you see (with his erections in public) it&#8217;s all in his head.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You can&#8217;t mentally &#8220;will&#8221; an erection to happen.<\/strong>\u00a0 It&#8217;s a natural process that happens on it&#8217;s own.\u00a0 He needs to get as horny as possible without thinking about his erection, and then it will come along on it&#8217;s own.<\/p>\n<p>Send the links below to your boyfriend.\u00a0 They should help him learn that men all over the world have experienced mental erectile dysfunction that keeps them from getting an erection.\u00a0 Most men face this mental block erectile dysfunction at least once in their lifetime, usually early on their sex lives.\u00a0 I did as well.\u00a0 It can be overcome.<\/p>\n<p>I helped this man with his mental block to getting an erection&#8230;\u00a0 he was experiencing pretty much the exact same thing you and your man are going through.\u00a0 This weekend he sent me an email with this feedback:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;This guide swiftly helped me with my problem. You made things seem so simple, I just took the advice from it and it seriously worked. I can&#8217;t tell you how thankful I am. My girlfriend was at her beach house, and her parents\u00a0weren&#8217;t\u00a0going to be there until later in the week. I stayed the night, and within a 12 hour span, we had sex 7\u00a0separate\u00a0times!!! It was so amazing! I did\u00a0as\u00a0you said, I didn&#8217;t even think about my erection, I just went with the flow. You were completely right, it is all in your head. Now me and my girlfriend enjoy sex as often as we can! This guide really helped me through sex anxiety, it broke things down and made it seem easy to defeat. Thank you so much man, you have no idea how in debt i am to you. You&#8217;re the best.&#8221;<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>For some more information on how your man can overcome his performance anxiety and get his erections back to normal, send him an email with these links:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mistermanpower.net\/blog\/exercises-to-strengthen-erections-overcome-sexual-performance-anxiety-and-increase-sex-drive.php\">Exercises to Strengthen Erections, Overcome Sexual Performance Anxiety, and Increase Sex Drive\u2026<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mistermanpower.net\/blog\/how-your-mental-state-affects-your-ability-to-achieve-an-erection.php\">How Your Mental State Affects Your Ability To Achieve an Erection<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mistermanpower.net\/blog\/my-early-erectile-dysfunction-experience.php\">My Early Sexual Performance Anxiety Experience\u2026<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Have a good one!<\/p>\n<p>-David<br \/>\n<strong>Mr. Manpower\u2019s Guide to<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Overall Manhood Enhancement<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>==========================<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">a few days later&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em>&#8220;Hey there!\u00a0<\/em><em>Its Cassie from the other day telling you about the problem my boyfriend was having. I showed him these links and since then when we\u00a0got\u00a0down to &#8220;things&#8221; it worked! Not only once, but 5 times in the\u00a0space of about\u00a04 hours. He\u00a0also\u00a0felt more confident knowing he is not the only man having these problems and has relaxed more with what pleasure he is\u00a0receiving\u00a0rather than concentrating on getting it\u00a0up,\u00a0which has helped him immensely to start to overcome this fear and thinking too much about getting it up. He seems more confident and relaxed now, and has made things\u00a0a lot\u00a0better between\u00a0us. On the last time his erection went soft but I\u00a0didn&#8217;t\u00a0just say &#8220;yeah its ok&#8221; and turn over, I was\u00a0still\u00a0all over him and praising him which I think has made a difference too. Thank you so much for\u00a0your help we appreciate it very much and we are glad you were of a great help to us! thank you!!!!!&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">============================<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">No problem, Cassie&#8230; I&#8217;m very happy to hear that!<\/p>\n<p>Keep up the <em>&#8220;good work!&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>-David<br \/>\n<strong>Mr. Manpower\u2019s Guide to<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Overall Manhood Enhancement<\/strong><br \/>\nThe Ultimate Sex Guide for Men\u2026 \u201c<em>male potency without drugs\u201d<\/em><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.mistermanpower.net\/\">www.MisterManpower.net<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"mailto:david@mistermanpower.net\">david@mistermanpower.net<\/a><br \/>\n&#8211;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I was about 18 or so, I had some pretty crappy experiences with what you can call &#8220;mental erectile dysfunction&#8221; (aka sexual performance anxiety, aka psychological ED)&#8230; pretty much a mental block to getting an erection. 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