I remember going to the high school prom with this hot dancer from my school. Wearing those extremely thin tuxedo pants, it was hard to hide the size of my little flaccid penis, so I kept my distance from her while dancing.
I also remember a few other times where I felt a little “less than manly” while dancing with a girl, and I was positive she could feel the tinyness of my flaccid penis.
Many times I would try and shake my penis around to get a little blood going to it before I pushed into a woman’s backside. Dancing pretty much consists of humping on the dance floor with clothes on, and it’s been like this for decades… probably since people used to do “The Twist”.
Good news is, with some manual techniques I’ve been able to greatly increase the size of my flaccid penis, so I no longer worry if a woman is feeling my penis while dancing.
I now have much better experiences when dancing/grinding (and less self-concern). For instance, I was recently dancing with a girl in a club, who turned around and told me I had a big dick… so she had to to feel something!
I wanted to find out if women could tell how big a man’s penis is while grinding, so on a quest for the truth I asked the following question on an answers forum:
Question for girls who have “grinded” before?
“I always wondered this… when dancing real close, do you ever pay attention to how big the guys “johnson” is? Like can you actually feel it?
And have you ever walked away from dancing with a guy because he felt “small”?
Hope I didn’t offend anyone.. its honestly always been a curiosity to me. Thanks”
The responses from women on grinding and penis size:
-“Haha funny question but yes I’ve paid attention. You can sorta feel it but not really. And I haven’t ever walked away because it doesn’t matter how big it feels/is. I just wanna dance! Hope I helped :)”
-“haha nope. i honestly can not say that no one cares if you’re “small”, when you’re grinding that is…”
-“You can’t really tell the size through their pants and etc, unless they get an erection while grinding I suppose.”
-“I have only danced like that with my guy. He has an extra big Johnson and it hangs down his pant leg. When I grind on him, he gets excited and it is very noticeable !”
-“At times I do (like 85%)! But at the end i’m just having fun. My experience.”
-“Most people who dance don’t even think about stuff like that. I wouldn’t like it if a guy grinded on me anyway especially if they didn’t ask me to dance. Most guys who do grind don’t even ask the girl to dance with them. They just come up behind the girl and start grinding and I find that very rude.”
-“When I have been in the situation you described and I could feel a bulge, but not well enough to judge it’s size. I certainly have not stopped dancing with someone because it felt too small. In this scenario does the man get an erection? If he did, then maybe the woman could tell how big it is. I hope this helps.”
-“I have only grinded with my guy but several of my girlfriends have danced with him too. They all commented that he had a huge boner while grinding. They don’t know but they’re right!”
-“well she can tell if its small large or jumbo but other than that”
-“I dont usually feel for it, I just go with it, usually the guy likes it though, and no I’ve never walked away from a guy cause it’s too small”
-“hahah I mean you cant really miss it but && no its not that big of a deal to walk away”
-“i don’t think so. I sat on this guy, and his thing felt big,, but then when he took it out, it was small and he was black. o.o”
-“Uhm you cant feel it unless they have an erection.”
-“They can get an idea, but you know, sometimes people get those, like, half erections, so not for sure.”
-“yes you can tell and NO i have never walked away that is kinda cruel haha besides he might have a small johnson and be extremely cute to make out with :P”
-“johnson lmao.i have felt it before.and no size doesn’t matter.”
-“I can’t tell size but would know if you are packing or carrying a pinky sized one.”
So What’s The Answer?
Well, actually there was not a unanimous decision here, but it appears that most women can feel something there. I for one can feel a lot more “impact” while dancing up on a woman, and feel her booty rubbing against my python.
How To Get An Erection While Grinding
I used to have the toughest time getting hard while grinding. Many women due actually enjoy this, and it’s a sign that you find them sexy/attractive. I’ve actually had a woman stop dancing with me for this reason (not getting an erection while grinding), part of the reason I asked this question.
Being able to get an erection while grinding is the same as getting an erection during sex… keep anxiety low, and remove worry from your mind. Just have fun, and don’t think about your penis… just the good sensations, and the “eroticness” of the situation. Since increasing my flaccid penis size, this has removed the anxiety I feel when dancing with the woman (it’s been replaced with pride!;), so I now find it much easier to get hard when dancing with a girl.
If you want to make your flaccid penis bigger as well, it’s not all that hard. My guide has all the information you need on the exercises for flaccid gains (as well as erect): How to Make Your Penis Bigger Without Pills
Have a good one!