Girlfriend Has Had Bigger? Don’t Fret, How To Keep Your Cool

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I received an email today from a young man by the name of James.

James is experiencing mental erectile dysfunction because a girl told him that she had been with “larger” men.

My take on the situation, along with my advice for overcoming mental ED:

“Good afternoon Mr. David it’s James again. I am currently attracted to a girl who is also attracted to me. She has had sex with other men who have apparently had large penises. The psychological aspect of this situation to me is I know how to use my penis yet I feel as if it just won’t be good regarding the simple fact that she had had bigger penises inside of her. It’s really all psychological because I get extremely excited and rock hard around her. I am just paranoid that the erection will go down to my flaccid state out of nowhere due to my psychological stress of not being big enough. How do I cure that?”


My reply:

Hi James,

First and foremost, how do you know that she’s been with a man with a bigger penis?

Do you know these men personally, and they’ve said they have a large penis. Well… this is a lie that men never get too old to stop telling.

Sure, there are, of course, men with larger penises than average, but for every 1, there are 10 who are lying.

Did she tell you she’s been with men with bigger penises?

I’ve dated women like that… they like to “hurt” the man for some reason… don’t get why, but lots of women innately have this… possibly to test how secure you are…. Doesn’t mean she is all evil or anything, it’s just a weird trait many women have (and many men as well!)..

Also… I don’t always believe everything people tell me…

Edgar Allen Poe once said:

“Believe only half of what you see, and nothing that you hear.”

overcoming mental erectile dysfunction 300x200 Girlfriend Has Had Bigger? Don't Fret, How To Keep Your CoolI live by those words…

If I didn’t see a massively hung man banging the girl, with my own eyes, then I don’t believe it at all.

And I continue to believe that I’m the largest she’s ever been with… even if I know the possibility exists that this isn’t true. Why? Because why not?

Thinking anything else will just bother you.

Plus, she wants to have sex with YOU… your penis, be it 6 inches, 5 inches, whatever, is inside of her… not any of these supposed larger men.

So what good is a supposed bigger penis doing for them now? If it was so great, why aren’t they the ones slip, sliding away inside of her?

The Cause of Your Mental ED — Getting Down To Brass Tacks

Overcoming this mental “annoyance” of comparing ex-lovers is not the main problem here…

Men suffer from mental erectile dysfunction, and blame it on all sorts of things… from guilt of cheating, to starting to date after divorce, to porn…

But the bottom line, the reason you can’t get an erection, and MILLIONS of men on a daily basis can’t get an erection before sex is due to nerves… anxiety…

Having any sort of anxiety or nervousness in mind will not allow your arousal to flourish.

Arousal generally starts in the mind… it takes an erotic visual, or some pleasuring physical stimulation, but it sparks in the mind, and carries down to the erection.

If your brain is a storm of nervousness and worry, then the arousal signal will be blocked off… it won’t form in the mind, and then it definitely won’t make it to your penis.

Yes… there are physical causes for erectile dysfunction as well, but in general, most cases of ED, especially being that you are a young man, have a strong mental component.

If you have any more questions, shoot them over!

-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement

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