I remember the first time having sex when I was high.
Not NEARLY as much of a smoker as I was when I was younger, but I can recall this like yesterday.
Me and Samantha, at her mother’s house. Her parent’s could give three shits what we did in her room.
We smoked a joint in her bathroom, and then laid down watching a movie. I was 19 or so, and she was 17.
Not before long, those teenage hormones kicked in, and I began exploring Samantha’s body… a bit of tittie sucking, a bit of fingering… she was playing with my penis. But with the fog of marijuana over the brain, there was so much more to it this time… it felt so… intriguing… exciting… mysterious.. and I was VERY horny.
I was hard in no time… and before long, I was entering her.
The actual physical sensation of penetration felt like pulses of electric pleasure shooting from my penis throughout my body… she must have been feeling the same in her body. I lasted much longer during sex while high than I usually did (I was a premature ejaculator back then, big time).
It felt amazing… I have the most powerful orgasm I had ever experienced in my short sex life, and I believe she may have orgasmed (luckily, she knew how to get herself off… I was pointless back then as well, as most teens are).
We lay there in post-orgasmic bliss, amazed at how great the sex felt.
We agreed, it was electrical… it was the best way to describe someone who’s fairly new to sex (at least on a regular basis), and fairly new to marijuana (at least on a regular basis…).
With Samantha I never had problems getting an erection, because I knew her… I was comfortable with her.
So high, drunk, whatever, she was my orgasm provider… I was trained like Pavlov’s dogs hearing a bell when she was around.
However, Other Times After that Were Not as Blissful When It Came to Trying to Get an Erection While High and Having Sex…
Shortly after Samantha I dated Janet, a girl with a decent face, but an AMAZING body…
She liked to smoke weed, way more than me… she put me to shame a couple of times, where I had to tap out. And she pretty much told me to man up…. it was bad.
Anyway, early on in our getting to know each other, Janet and I smoked a bit, and we had her house to herself.
It was our first time messing around at such an intense level, and we started out with some foreplay… She pulled her amazingly large breasts out, and I began to suck on them… meanwhile, nothing was happening down in my penis.
It was dead… my dick was completely dead…
I began to freak out (worst thing to do when your erection doesn’t want to work), and no matter what Janet did with her mouth or her hands, my penis was a sad, shriveled thing, just laying there… road kill.
Definitely not impressive.
The smoke had completely overcome my mind, and overpowered my penis from experiencing any life.
Her and I never ended up doing anything… I was too embarrassed. I kind of left things as they were, and never spoke to Janet again.
To this day, if she ever sees me, she probably thinks I’m a punk…
Luckily, in time, I learned how to overcome this problem… without having to kick the sensi.
So What… What’s the Damn Secret to Getting An Erection While High??
This situation that happened with Janet happened with a few other women.
The problem was not so much the marijuana. As long as you don’t COMPLETELY over do the marijuana, and smoke WAY more than you should, the only difference between getting an erection when high and not high, is it takes a little more building up of the mental arousal.
Get creative here… when you’re high, you’re creative. Now get “creatively freaky” with whatever you like about her naked body…
If you have problems with sexual performance anxiety to begin with (as many men do, including myself when I was younger), than marijuana will just exacerbate this problem.
Yes, marijuana has a sort of “smogging” effect on your arousal and erections, which may take you a bit longer to get fully hard, but take your time and enjoy the ride until full erection. Once you break through the fog, and once you get it up, you will have the funnest, and most exciting / interesting / mental sex you can have… and the “electricity” feels great.
Just remember, don’t over do it… not only for the sex’s sake. Once you’re high, you’re high… overdoing it is just abusing it, and you’re just going to “fry” yourself out.
If you have problems with sexual performance anxiety, a sort of mental block to getting an erection, than take a look at my guide to overcoming mental ED here…
For exercises and things you can do to strengthen the physical part of your erections, see here…
Have a good one!
-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement