Young men face erectile dysfunction too… but it’s a different type of erectile dysfunction… not physical, but rather, psychological erectile dysfunction.
I faced this mental block to getting an erection when I was a young pup.
I had a hot-ass chick willing to have sex with me, and no matter what I did, no matter how hard I tried, I just couldn’t get an erection…
It occurred a number of times: the embarrassing situation of me eating her pussy, and fumbling my flaccid penis around in my hand trying to wake it up…
She was patient at first, but began to lose patience quickly… “I wish you could f**k me like Jessica’s boyfriend fucked her the other day… BANG BANG BANG on the hood of his car…”
Kind of a “hoodratted” statement that made me wonder about her (and what she did with her free time), but her words really hit a nerve… and poked at my innermost insecurity.
On the fourth attempt I managed to overcome the mental block ED slightly, but it quickly fell into a semi-erection by the time I got the condom on, and I then penetrated her with a softy until I busted (which was really soon… go in with a soft penis and for some reason you ejaculate sooner than if you were rock hard).
I spoke with a few other guys about this ED mental block, and many had experienced the same thing…
And they all had the same fear… that their penis was broken (or they had hormonal issues) and that they were one of the youngest men in the world to ever get erectile dysfunction.
I quickly learned a few tricks to completely overcome erectile dysfunction mental block and get a rock hard erection on command… and over the years learned more and more about it…
There was nothing wrong with my erection. Really it was just a mixture of conflicting emotions that caused a storm of anxieties in my mind… that can cause major issues with your arousal.
A few of the conflicting emotions:
- An overwhelming urge to impress;
- The fear that you won’t get an erection;
- The hope that you’ll last long enough to make her orgasm and overall be a good performer
These are all things that get jumbled into your thoughts when you really should just have a clear mind and enjoy the sexual situation in front of you… That’s how you “overcome” this mental wall to getting hard.
You’re not overcoming this anxiety, like overpowering this anxiety, but more like working with or through the anxiety.
You don’t ignore that the anxiety is there, you have to acknowledge it, but work with it and don’t let it overwhelm your arousal.
And when I say arousal I don’t mean physically getting an erection… I mean the emotional and physical rush of “horniness” that you need to let take over your body… don’t block this rush… let it run through you, and getting an erection is much easier.
There are also some exercises to strengthen your erections, giving you physically harder, longer-lasting erections… these help too.
Have yourself a good one!!
-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement
the ultimate sex guide for men… “male potency without drugs”
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