How to Last Long Enough During Sex to Make a Woman Orgasm

As a man, our job is much more difficult than a woman’s when it comes to sex.

We need to be able to last long enough to make her orgasm, we need to be able to get it up, when under pressure… we need to know how to properly penetrate a woman to get her off… if we can get her off at all.

Honestly, it needs an instruction booklet… one that doesn’t exist.

Too much BS information out there on how to last long enough during sex to make a woman orgasm. “Oh… stop and start”… “Oh… ejaculate before sex”…

How am I supposed to get her to orgasm, if a female’s orgasm takes longer to reach than a man’s, if I keep on stopping right as she gets there?

And what enjoyment will I take during sex if I release one before sex, and I go into battle with an empty pistol? And that will sap my erection strength and libido…

Other advice is to think of something else, or to get her off orally before sex. These are both better solutions, but you don’t want to completely remove yourself from the situation mentally, nor do you want to rely only on oral sex.

Lasting Longer During Sex Mentally and Physically

The mind controls the physical aspect, when it comes to sexual stamina.

I remember one time, an ex-girlfriend of mine had sex with me when I was half asleep (I am not woke… I had no complaints towards this), and because my mind was out of it, she was able to ride me for 30 minutes plus and rode herself off to multiple orgasms.

This was at a time that I suffered from premature ejaculation the worst.

Get your mind in the right place, and the physical will be no problem. You need to have strong mind control. As “airy” as the suggestion is, meditation helps you to build some concentration.

Do not allow your arousal to take over your mind. In that frenzied state, keeping ejaculation control is nearly impossible for too long… stay in control from beginning to end.

Physically supporting the cause is key though, as well. PC training, getting the PC muscles strengthened with kegels, helps you greatly maintain physical control.

For more on how to last longer during sex physically and mentally, see here.

Bringing a Woman to Orgasm During Penetration

Clitoris is key to the female orgasm. Most men don’t even know where the clitoris is located. They think “banging” away at a woman as hard as they can will magically bring a woman to orgasm, as if they have a switch located on the inside of their vagina. While there are some points inside the vagina (like the G-spot), which can bring you different levels of success with different women, the clitoris is what brings a woman to orgasm, even in these cases. This is because the G-spot is part of the clitoral network, or a lower extension of the clitoris.

The challenge is how to stimulate the clitoris during penetration. There are different methods to do this, with the main idea being that you want to stimulate the clit (which is almost external to the vagina, being on the top point), while penetrating. This can be done manually, or with the base of your penis or pelvis.

For more on how to make a woman orgasm during penetration, see here.

More Resources on Lasting Longer and Female Orgasm

If looking for more tips on how to last long enough to make a woman orgasm during sex, here are some resources on how to delay ejaculation and bring women to orgasm: