It’s annoying, and can prevent you from having sex with your partner, or even worse, having sex without a condom at all…
I’m guilty of not wearing a condom on a couple of occasions just to avoid losing my erection. And with some pretty suspect women… luckily I’ve been checked, and I’m clean… but man, that’s a gamble! Never again.
Losing your erection when putting on the condom has to do with rushing the situation.
You feel that you need to rush to put on the condom so that you don’t lose your erection. This is actually the opposite of what you want to do.
While you don’t want to take TOO much time, you shouldn’t rush the situation either. This rush creates anxiety in your mind. And this anxiety can cause you to lose your erection.
Take… your… time… and be easy. While keeping mentally aroused.
How to Prevent Losing your Erection while putting on a Condom
Before sex, make sure that you place the condom somewhere nearby to where the magic is going to happen.
Then you want to get as good of an erection as possible. Foreplay, touching, oral, whatever you’d like, just get real good and horny, and make sure you have a solid erection for 30 seconds to a minute, in order to “fortify” your erection. The longer it’s been hard, the longer it will stay hard (generally, as long as mental arousal is present).
Once you’ve fortified your erection, calmly reach for the condom and tear the corner. Remember, don’t rush. If need be, have your partner continue to stimulate your penis (or massage your testicles) while you are opening the condom wrapper and placing it on your penis.
Once on your penis, softly roll it down. Make it a pleasureable sensation when you put the condom on, almost like you’re stimulating yourself with the motion. And if it’s backwards, don’t freak the F out!… calmly, flip it, then roll it down.
Then line it up, and get to work.
It’s The Anxiety’s Fault
Sexual performance anxiety is the culprit for the majority of erection issues, especially when young. It has to do with rushing the situation, and fearing that you will lose your erection. Replace your thoughts of fear and rushing with calm, while building up mental arousal..
While I have a mental solution for beating it every time, some erection strengthening exercises can definitely help by reinforcing the physical part as well. If you need some extra help in this area, I can help.
Have a good one!
-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement