They say men are selfish if the woman doesn’t have an orgasm during sex… as if we have a choice.
Premature ejaculation is a frustrating affliction… and DEFINITELY has nothing to do with being selfish.
Now, if you had the ability to last long in bed, and you DECIDED you just wanted to get in there, get your orgasm, and get out… then yes, you’d be selfish… but most men would KILL to have this option.
I had premature ejaculation, and the last thing I was doing was thinking about myself… I wanted nothing more than to give a woman an orgasm. Sex became an obsessive test of my manhood… that I failed over and over.
It was always the same same shitty scenario… even if I managed to last a magnificent six or seven minutes (not including a few minutes of fumbling foreplay), I would still always finish RIGHT BEFORE my girl was going to have an orgasm.
I failed as a men, I would feel… on a regular basis.
Sex wasn’t fun anymore… it was humiliating. But if you would have came up and told me I was selfish, I probably would have slapped you in the face… if my low self esteem had permitted that.
How To Control Ejaculation During Sex, Last Longer In Bed
Over the years I gathered some ejaculation control techniques that actually work. This, combined with an increased knowledge on the type of penetration it takes to make a woman orgasm, FINALLY helped me to make a woman orgasm during sex.
And as I practiced and perfected my craft, I was able to repeat this process on a regular basis… satisfied customer after satisfied customer.
When it comes to ejaculation control, you don’t want to go to town, “banging away” as fast as you can, and then slowing down right at the point of no return… once you’re in the red zone, it’s almost impossible to get out. You can pull out, wait 30 seconds, and as soon as you put it back in, you’ll just be a couple of strokes away from cumming.
You want to stay in control WAY before the point of no return.
You want to keep your arousal in check even during foreplay. Become aroused enough to get an erection, but once entering, keep your arousal low… don’t concentrate on overly arousing thoughts and visuals… like her nipples bouncing in your face. Zero in on these once you want to finish…
Certain ejaculation control exercises can train you to last longer during sex. You practice the exercises on your own (no, this is not “edging”, another bullshit technique), and then when you do have sex, you have much more control over your ejaculation.
For more in-depth techniques to delay ejaculation and last longer during sex, check this out: How To Control Ejaculation During Sex; Last Longer In Bed
Have a good one!!
-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
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