For men suffering from performance anxiety before sex, it’s hard enough to keep an erection until you enter the vagina, without having to worry about rolling on some tight rubbery contraption with an annoying wrapper.
Even for men who don’t generally have a problem staying hard for sex, the process of opening and putting on the condom can kill arousal.
So therefore I’m blessing you with…
MR. MANPOWER’S GUIDE TO PUTTING ON A CONDOM WITHOUT LOSING YOUR ERECTION
(Prerequisite) First and foremost, you need to know how to open the condom wrapper quickly and seamlessly for when the time comes. If you don’t want to waste a condom practicing on your own (as they can be pricey), then just open it before you’re going to have sex… as in, before you’re even aroused/hard.
When opening the condom wrapper, a bite to the corner is good, or just ripping a corner, and tearing it across the top. This may sound dumb and pointless, but if you want to keep your arousal high, you don’t want to be fumbling around with the condom wrapper. MAKE SURE not to bite or rip into the condom.
(Step 1) During the act of sex, once erect, play around for a while before putting on the condom so your erection becomes “fortified”. You don’t want to become erect and right away put on the condom. Have her stimulate your penis for a little while first, some amount of time between 30 seconds and a minute.
If she’s scared to stimulate your penis, as some women are, then stroke it yourself, ALL THE WHILE STAYING AS MENTALLY AROUSED AS POSSIBLE. You need to multitask here… while the main goal is to keep your mind horny, make sure your keeping your Johnson stimulated so it becomes solid.
(Step 2) Once fortified, you need to open the condom (see prerequisite). DON’T RUSH when opening the condom, and don’t rush when rolling it on. Being in a hurry increases anxiety, and anxiety kills arousal (both mental and physical arousal)… take your time. Stay mentally aroused by looking down at the naked girl in front of you… have her play with your testicles or penis while you open the condom, to keep your erection fortified.
(Step 3) Roll on the condom. Once again, be calm and cool when doing this. If you place it upside down by accident, DON’T FREAK THE FUCK OUT… just flip it rightside up, and calmly roll down the condom, and simultaneously stimulating your shaft on the way down.
(Step 4) Line up for the kill… remember, the vaginal opening is usually lower than you think. She may grab it and line it up for you.
Your penis should be hard and fortified still, as long as you kept your mental arousal high and didn’t rush. Now go to town, and have fun. You’ve earned it. You’ve put on a condom without losing your erection.
For more advanced techniques for overcoming psychological erectile dysfunction (for instance, if you can’t even get hard enough to put on the condom), and exercises for harder erections, click here: Overcoming Psychological Erectile Dysfunction
Have a good one!!
-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
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