Psychological ED can be a vicious cycle.
It starts with a failed erection for unknown reasons, usually with a new lover. You’ve never had issues getting an erection before, it was always something that just happened automatically. But for some reason you just can’t get it up… or you get it up, and before you go to enter, you lose your erection.
I know, because this has happened to me. Happened to me real bad when I was in my late teens. 20 years later, and I still remember it like it was yesterday. It was traumatizing. It made me think that there was something physically wrong with my erection. That I may have had some rare condition that only a few young men around the world had. I figured I’d have to take medication for the rest of my life to get an erection.
This made made me extremely anxious, and I kept this anxiety with me all the way until the next time I had sex, and guess what happened… thanks to this very same anxiety I was unable to get an erection AGAIN. Which further increased the anxiety, which made it even harder to get another erection… and so on and so on. The vicious cycle of psychological ED.
Some men can snap out of it, and overcome their mental block erectile dysfunction, others stay with a problem for a long time. Some men are plagued by it off and on for their whole life.
Sure, Viagra will knock the problem out the park, but then you’ll depend on it mentally, and what happens the day you don’t have the little blue pill with you and she wants a quickie? Your anxiety will be heavier than ever! Plus you’ll feel like a fake, not being able to count on your own man-made ability to achieve an erection.
But let me tell you this, you can overcome psychological erectile dysfunction, but it starts in the brain. Physical exercises can give you harder, longer lasting erections, but unless the mental signal can reach your penis, it’s no good.
Luckily, with some advice that I’ll NEVER forget, I learned to overcome psychological erectile dysfunction once and for all… and it never bothered me again. Part of it is knowing that your penis knows what to do, you don’t tell it what to do… as a matter of fact, trying to “mentally will” your penis to get hard, will actually have the opposite effect… for more advice on getting hard erections on command again, without missing a beat (as well as exercises for stronger erections), check this out: Overcoming Erectile Dysfunction Naturally
Have a good one!!
-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
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