What Does a Girl Feel While Grinding? And Getting An Erection While Grinding

erection while grindingI’ve always wondered… what does a girl feel when grinding on me? And should I be getting an erection while grinding? And if so, how come sometimes I couldn’t?

I remember going to the high school prom with this hot dancer from my school.  Wearing those extremely thin tuxedo pants, it was hard to hide the size of my little flaccid penis, so I kept my distance from her while dancing.

I also remember a few other times where I felt a little “less than manly” while dancing with a girl, and I was positive she could feel the tinyness of my flaccid penis.

Many times I would try and shake my penis around to get a little blood going to it before I pushed into a woman’s backside.  Dancing pretty much consists of humping on the dance floor with clothes on, and it’s been like this for decades… probably since people used to do “The Twist”.

Good news is, with some manual techniques I’ve been able to greatly increase the size of my flaccid penis, so I no longer worry if a woman is feeling my penis while dancing.

I now have much better experiences when dancing/grinding (and less self-concern).  For instance, I was recently dancing with a girl in a club, who turned around and told me I had a big dick… so she had to to feel something!

I wanted to find out if women could tell how big a man’s penis is while grinding, so on a quest for the truth I asked the following question on an answers forum:

Question for girls who have “grinded” before?

“I always wondered this… when dancing real close, do you ever pay attention to how big the guys “johnson” is? Like can you actually feel it?

And have you ever walked away from dancing with a guy because he felt “small”?

Hope I didn’t offend anyone.. its honestly always been a curiosity to me.  Thanks”

The responses from women on grinding and penis size:

-“Haha funny question but yes I’ve paid attention. You can sorta feel it but not really. And I haven’t ever walked away because it doesn’t matter how big it feels/is. I just wanna dance! Hope I helped :)”

-“haha nope. i honestly can not say that no one cares if you’re “small”, when you’re grinding that is…”

-“You can’t really tell the size through their pants and etc, unless they get an erection while grinding I suppose.”

-“I have only danced like that with my guy.  He has an extra big Johnson and it hangs down his pant leg. When I grind on him, he gets excited and it is very noticeable !”

-“At times I do (like 85%)! But at the end i’m just having fun.  My experience.”

-“Most people who dance don’t even think about stuff like that. I wouldn’t like it if a guy grinded on me anyway especially if they didn’t ask me to dance. Most guys who do grind don’t even ask the girl to dance with them. They just come up behind the girl and start grinding and I find that very rude.”

-“When I have been in the situation you described and I could feel a bulge, but not well enough to judge it’s size. I certainly have not stopped dancing with someone because it felt too small. In this scenario does the man get an erection? If he did, then maybe the woman could tell how big it is. I hope this helps.”

-“I have only grinded with my guy but several of my girlfriends have danced with him too. They all commented that he had a huge boner while grinding. They don’t know but they’re right!”

-“well she can tell if its small large or jumbo but other than that”

-“I dont usually feel for it, I just go with it, usually the guy likes it though, and no I’ve never walked away from a guy cause it’s too small”

-“of course”

-“hahah I mean you cant really miss it but && no its not that big of a deal to walk away”

-“i don’t think so. I sat on this guy, and his thing felt big,, but then when he took it out, it was small and he was black. o.o”

-“Uhm you cant feel it unless they have an erection.”

-“They can get an idea, but you know, sometimes people get those, like, half erections, so not for sure.”

-“yes you can tell and NO i have never walked away that is kinda cruel haha besides he might have a small johnson and be extremely cute to make out with :P”

-“johnson lmao.i have felt it before.and no size doesn’t matter.”

-“I can’t tell size but would know if you are packing or carrying a pinky sized one.”

So What’s The Answer?

Well, actually there was not a unanimous decision here, but it appears that most women can feel something there.  I for one can feel a lot more “impact” while dancing up on a woman, and feel her booty rubbing against my python.

How To Get An Erection While Grinding

I used to have the toughest time getting an erection while grinding. Many women due actually enjoy when you get hard when you dance with them, and it’s a sign that you find them sexy/attractive.  I’ve actually had a woman stop dancing with me for this reason (not getting an erection while grinding), part of the reason I asked this question.

Being able to get an erection while grinding is the same as getting an erection during sex… keep anxiety low, and remove worry from your mind.  Just have fun, and don’t think about your penis… just the good sensations, and the “eroticness” of the situation and enjoy the music without giving it too much thought!  Since increasing my flaccid penis size, this has removed the anxiety I feel when dancing with the woman (it’s been replaced with pride!;), so I now find it much easier to get hard when dancing with a girl.

If you want to make your flaccid penis bigger as well, it’s not all that hard. My guide has all the information you need on the exercises for flaccid gains (as well as erect): How to Make Your Penis Bigger Without Pills

Have a good one!

-David aka Mr. Manpower
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement
The Ultimate Sex Guide for Men… “male potency without drugs”
www.MisterManpower.net
david@mistermanpower.net

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How To Make A Girl Orgasm Every Time – Surefire Technique

how to make a girl cumI used to have the toughest time ever making a girl orgasm.  I had no idea what it took to give a woman an orgasm.

I thought I had to have a bigger dick, or last longer, in order to satisfy her.

I tried all kinds of things… I tried thinking about something else to distract my thoughts (my version of “thinking about baseball” was to think of my agenda for the following week… fun huh)…

I tried fingering her ass, pulling her hair, talking dirtier, penetrating harder, and I just couldn’t make her orgasm…I just thought I had to be more animalistic…

But I was wrong… I was concentrating my efforts in the wrong direction.

After having a couple of girls leave me because of my inability to satisfy them in bed, I started on my quest to solve the mystery of the female orgasm. I needed a surefire way to make women orgasm, I wasn’t going to have another one leave me for this reason….

I first started with learning about how to eat a woman out… this was the first time I learned about the importance of the clitoris to the female orgasm.

Even if I was able to last ten minutes of penetration, my girl was nowhere near orgasm, because I wasn’t stimulating the clit.  The g-spot is another avenue to make a woman orgasm, but making her orgasm with g-spot stimulation is a little more difficult (but still very possible).

So with this newfound cunnilingus knowledge I got my new girlfriend… I would eat this girl’s pussy like there was no tomorrow… orgasm after orgasm while fingering her g-spot… I began to specialize in oral sex on her.

After I’d make her orgasm by this sure-fire method, I’d dive right in and ride until orgasm (which was soon thereafter… used to have premature ejaculation issues).

As time progressed, and my research continued, I learned more and more ways of making a woman orgasm.  I especially began to research into techniques to make a woman orgasm during penetration, with clitoral and g-spot stimulation.

Then came the next girl (literally)… whether legs on my shoulders, or pounding into her clit with my pelvic bone during deep penetration, I was making her orgasm with just intercourse… of course I threw in the oral sex, often times to get her primed and dripping wet, but most often I’d give her her orgasm(s) with the good ol’ dick I got.

All the while I was learning about the female orgasm, I was also learning how to last longer during sex with ejaculation control exercises and techniques, as well as how to stay hard after orgasm with the male multiple orgasm technique.

For more information on sure-fire ways to make a woman orgasm, see here:

For a technique to last forever during orgasm, by having multiple orgasms without going soft, see here:

See ya ’round!

-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement
“the ultimate sex guide for men… male potency without drugs“

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How To Shorten Refractory Period; She Wants it Again!!

how to shorten the refractory period

I remember back in high school, my friend rented a hotel on South Beach during prom weekend, hoping he would get lucky with his prom date.

I had a new girlfriend, and we were both humping like rabbits at the time.  I didn’t go to the prom (I was still a junior), and I asked him if I could borrow the key and use his hotel room while he was at the dance.  He said cool, no problem.

So I went to the hotel room with my girl, and almost immediately we got to it.

I remember the first round, I busted fairly quick, and quickly lost my erection.  I barely lost any libido though… and within five minutes I was putting on another condom, and going at it again. This time I lasted a little longer…

Then BANG… same deal… wipe off in the sink, take a breather, and in another five to ten minutes, I got hard again, and had sex with her again.

Three (3) orgasms complete with ejaculation within an hour…

… This was the last time I would ever experience such a short refractory period.

The reasons my refractory period was so short:

1) We weren’t used to having our own space, having to always hide our sexual activity, so it was VERY exciting and liberating.

2) I was very young so my hormones were raging, and sex was still something so brand new and freaky, and…

3) I probably had a 3-pack of condoms and I wanted to use them all. Making every dollar count was really important back then.

Fast-forward about a year later.  I was still with the same girl, and we had just finished having sex at her house. We were enjoying her family room, which we barely ever spent time in when her family was there (loud Cubans).  I told her let’s go for a round two, and she said something along the lines of me not being able to do that anymore…

I guess she knew me better than I did…. remembering my glory days, I did the typical macho response of trying to prove her wrong… and guess what:  my dick didn’t work.

The start of the refractory period.

During the refractory period, instead of eating pussy, you’d rather eat pizza.

how to shorten refractory period after ejaculation

The refractory period is the time after you ejaculate where you can’t get an erection again, and have no sex drive. As a man gets older, his refractory period gets stronger and longer…

Even if you CAN get another erection, the refractory period will keep you from WANTING to get another erection.

This gives us a big disadvantage in bed.  Just as we are getting a woman all warmed up, and ready for some marathon man sex… we’re ejaculating, rolling over, and going to sleep or going to check what’s in the fridge.

In order to reduce the refractory period after an orgasm, you need to counteract it.

The refractory period is characterized by a major reduction in libido and erection strength.  So how DO you counter it?  Other than Viagra, there aren’t any drugs to reduce refractory period, so natural is the route to go…

Increase your sex drive, and strengthen your erections. That will work to shorten your refractory period by OVERPOWERING it.

The good news is that there are natural ways to increase your testosterone production and erection strength, without the need for pills or medication. This will give you a stronger physical and mental drive to get it up and want to get it up.

As to increasing your testosterone production, there are natural solutions, such as:

  • Getting a little sunlight everyday (especially on your back)
  • Eating mixed nuts, and leafy vegetables
  • Some weight training, with relatively heavy weight (especially squats and bench press)

among other things…

With this natural boost in testosterone production, you’ll have a stronger sex drive/libido, and improved erection quality.

Do some cardio. The greater the flow of oxygen throughout your body, the better the circulation, the better your body reacts.

Drink plenty of water… stay hydrated, dehydration will put a major damper on your sexual performance.

More ways to shorten refractory period, and get an erection again quickly after ejaculating.

Erection strengthening exercises will also greatly help you improve the physical quality of your erections.

An ejaculation will no longer be enough to make your erections weak.

Erection strengthening exercises and techniques will improve the blood flow to your erection, as well as the inner muscles (pc/bc/pelvic muscles) responsible for your erection strength.

With this stronger erection quality, you can have as many ejaculations as you’d like, and your erections will still be as hard as they were before you even had your first ejaculation.

As an alternative to shortening your refractory period, you can actually eliminate the refractory period altogether, with the male multiple orgasm technique… the male multiple orgasm technique allows you to have orgasms without ejaculation.

Ejaculation and orgasm are two separate events happening at the same time.  But ejaculation, not orgasm, is what causes the refractory period.  With the male multiple orgasm, you learn how to stop your ejaculation, have a pleasurable orgasm, but MAINTAIN YOUR ERECTION AFTER ORGASM!

NO refractory period.

Orgasm after orgasm without losing your erection…

For more information on how to shorten refractory period, strengthen erections, boost testosterone and stay hard after orgasm, see here…

See ya ’round!

-David Carreras
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement

“the ultimate sex guide for men… male potency without drugs

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Powerful Exercises for Harder, Longer Lasting Erections

longer lasting erections exercisesSince performing erection strengthening exercises over the years, my erections have gotten harder and harder… and longer lasting.

I thought erections were supposed to get weaker as you get older?  I seem to have the opposite happening here… thanks to these exercises, my erections seem to be getting harder as I age…

Even after I orgasm, my erection stays hard for a long time.

It’s almost like it’s reinforced or something, with a pipe running through it.

I gotta admit, it can be a little annoying sometimes, because after I ejaculate, my erection stays around for a long time… and unless I’m using it, sometimes I just want to get rid of it… but it just won’t’ go down!

These erection exercises will damn near give you a priapism!

Another thing is that the erections happen very fast… a simple sexual thought blasts some blood directly into my penis… and bam, there goes the erection… feel like a teenager all over again.

When I say exercises for longer lasting erections, I’m not just talking about simple kegels here…

In case you’re not familiar with the term kegels, kegels are exercises to strengthen your PC muscle, a muscle that helps improve erection strength and ejaculation control. See more on how to find the PC muscle and do kegels, here.

While kegels are important, as well as performing them correctly to REALLY concentrate on and strengthen the pc muscle, these exercises also include manual exercises to improve the blood flow to the erection, others to get your testicles pumping more testosterone…

An overall plan for improving erection quality.

Forget Viagra, if you’re looking for naturally harder, longer lasting erections, these exercises are all you need… and they’ll work for life.

I’ve had old men, I mean men in their 70’s (even one who was 82 years old!!) perform these exercises, and report amazing results.

Here’s some more technical information on these erection strengthening exercises:

Have a good one!!!

-David Carreras
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement
“the ultimate sex guide for men… male potency without drugs”

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