The size of your flaccid penis is not important at all when it comes to sex…
However, if you have a small flaccid penis size, I’m sure you can relate… our flaccid penis size has a lot to do with our ego and confidence.
The good news is there are manual exercises/techniques you can do to safely, permanently and naturally increase your flaccid length and girth.
First off let me share with you a scenario:
Say there are two men in a locker room, changing.
One man has an 8 inch penis when he is erect, but at this moment while flaccid, he is only 2.5 inches, somewhat shriveled and turtled up. He is a grower
The other man has a 6.5 inch penis when erect, but he is a “show-er”. His flaccid penis is thicker and hangs down 6 inches.
Who will feel better about themselves? Who do you think feels he has a bigger penis?
Even though the other man has a bigger erection, and can likely do more “damage” in bed, I can guarantee you that he feels much more insecure over his penis size in the locker room, as well as in a number of other scenarios, such as:
Getting out of the water in the ocean or pool
Dancing dirty with a woman before he can “warm up”
In the locker room where ego reigns supreme
Having a woman grab his penis out of the blue
Wearing pants where the flaccid penis is visible
In these situations, the man with the larger erection will feel smaller than the man with the bigger flaccid penis size and hang…
Does this really matter in the bigger scheme of things? No.
Does it matter to us trivial guys who can at times be vain and egotistical? You tell me…
To me it did.
I grew up with an embarrassingly under-sized flaccid penis. I thought it was going to miraculously grow larger in my later years, but it never did.
I had a respectable erection length, with a good sized girth, but damnit, my flaccid penis was tiny.
I had a couple of events that somewhat traumatized me, and scarred my self confidence.
In most cases it had to do with a woman touching or seeing my flaccid penis… and it was almost painfully embarrassing.
I’m not going to go into details, but let’s just say it was emasculating.
Good news:
With the application of some natural penis enlargement exercises to increase the size of my erection, as a side result, I have a much bigger flaccid hang, girth and length.
My flaccid penis is large all the time now.
My flaccid penis is heavier, thicker, hangs lower, and actually becomes erect quicker… now that I have nothing to hide.
If you would like to permanently increase the size of your flaccid penis, you should give my penis enlargement exercises a try… hard to believe, I know, but I’ve been doing natural penis enlargement for some time now, and have gained over 1.5 inches in erect length, an inch more in girth, and a much larger flaccid penis size… along with harder erections.
In case you feel your penis looks a little smaller than you’d like, there are a couple of ways to make your penis look bigger…
These are:
1) Shaving your pubic hairs…
Ever see the movie American Pie (think it’s part 3)? When the main guy shaves his pubes to make his penis appear larger for his future wife?
Well besides the fact that all his pubic shavings fly out the window and into the mouths of all the wedding guests (nasty, but pretty funny at the same time), he was doing a common tactic to make the penis look bigger… shaving the pubes.
Many men who want to make their penis look bigger follow this tactic. They get rid of the lion’s mane pubic hair style, in exchange for the “sleek” look…
In my own experience, with a small flaccid penis, shaving the pubes didn’t do much to make it look bigger… it just actually made it feel a little more exposed… but others may experience something different. Give it a shot!
2) Lose weight…
Excess belly fat not only makes the penis look smaller in comparison to the large gut, but excess belly fat increases the amount of estrogen in your body, and decreases your testosterone production. Lower testosterone production leads to a smaller flaccid penis penis size.
If you would like to know how to make your penis hang lower, larger, and thicker, shave off some of the gut, your T levels will jump, and this will give you a bit more hang.
Cut back on some of the calories, and pick up some cardio… which leads us to…
3) Improve circulation to get a hung penis (larger than baseline at least)…
Besides the gut burning effect, aerobic / cardio exercise will improve your circulation, improving your flaccid hang.
Ensuring you get a full night’s sleep, and eating well, and balanced, helps as well.
4) Manual exercises to increase flaccid size…
Usually when a man talks about making his penis look bigger, he’s talking about flaccid size. Certain natural penis enlargement exercises work very well for increasing the flaccid penis size, due to the improved blood flow. They make the flaccid penis longer, thicker, heavier, and to hang lower. This is one area of natural penis enlargement, I’ve always had an interest in…
How to make your penis LOOK Bigger and BE Bigger
It’s not just about the practical illusion. You don’t want to “trick” people into thinking you have a bigger penis. For that, stuff your underwear with socks. But in the end, your size is your size, and a woman is going to know the truth. Follow the above guidelines, and you’ll have a penis that LOOKS bigger and that IS bigger.
For more information on manual penis enlargement exercises, which work to increase your erect and flaccid size,see here… might be hard to believe it works, but I have before-and-after photos showing the results men have achieved with these exercises (in the link above). They work.
Have a good one!
-David Carreras Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement www.mistermanpower.net
I perform my penis enlargement exercises in the shower. This is how to make your penis a shower in the shower (because PE exercises permanently increase flaccid size… you step out hung, especially right after the exercises).
Whether you have a wife, girlfriend, family, or whatever “obstacles” to a bigger penis… you can discreetly make your penis bigger during your daily showering routine.
My lady just believes I take a really long shower. I proactively told her that when I take a shower it’s my time to unwind and I just sort of “dummy out” under the hot water and let my mind relax.
Little does she know that my shower time is my penis building time — the whole reason she wonders why my penis keeps feeling larger when we’re having sex… and why I look so large when changing…
I’ve made penis enlargement exercises part of my daily routine… I shave, brush my teeth, then make my penis a shower under the hot water.
Making it part of my routine has made it much easier to perform these exercises… in all honesty I take about 15 -20 minutes to perform my penis enlargement routine, nothing more.
Performing theses penis exercises in the shower is great because you can warm your penis up under the hot water, lubricate with whatever soap or lubrication you choose, and then warm down, all without making a mess, or needing privacy.
Penis enlargement takes a little bit of time to see quality results. You need to dedicate to it with a zen-like patience, but it pays off, allowing you to make your own penis a shower, even if you are the smallest of growers (I used to be there).
You don’t grow one inch in a single session of these penis exercises, but you do over several sessions.
You may be only a millimeter or two larger in a week, but in time, these millimeters add up to inches! Also, your quickest gains come in the beginning, so it’s worth trying out just for this reason.
The quickest I’ve heard of anyone gaining serious size is nearly an inch in a month… the most I’ve ever heard of anyone gaining from penis enlargement over their lifetime is 4 extra inches in erect length.
These are extreme gains and not the norm, but should serve as inspiration!
For more information on how to make your penis a shower naturally (as well as increase erect size), no pills, no surgery, see here: How to Make Your Penis Bigger
Have a good one!
-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement
“the ultimate sex guide for men… male potency without drugs“ david@mistermanpower.net
I received this email today from a young lady whose boyfriend is insecure over his penis size, and has trouble getting over his penis size.
I answered her question the best I could… This shines a light on issues many men face with penis size insecurity.
Her question:
“What to do when the man I love is so insecure about his penis size that it’s ruining our relationship?”
“Though we’ve had sex, for the longest time he would refuse to let me see it or touch it with my hands or put it in my mouth, the latter of which is something I really enjoy doing. After months of asking for it, he finally let me go down on him, and though he enjoyed it a lot, that’s when things started to fall apart. Immediately afterward he asked, “now do you understand why I never wanted you to do that?” and I was honestly dumbstruck. He is of average size and actually has a very attractive penis, and knows how to use it. His insecurity is baffling, but I can never seem to find the right words to explain this to him.
On an unrelated note, I’ve never in my life been able to have an orgasm (not just with him, but with anyone that isn’t myself). He takes this as a personal failure and considers himself even more inadequate as a result, though I’ve told him that it has nothing to do with HIM specifically. He insists that he can’t feel better about himself until he gives me an orgasm. This is somewhat understandable and I’ve told him what I like, but no– it has to be through penetration. My jaw dropped when he told me that; it’s a fact that only a small fraction of women can get off through penetration, and I KNOW I am NOT one of those women. He’s so ignorant of all these basic sex facts (the one mentioned, or that the average vagina is 4-6 inches long so it doesn’t make sense for the penis to be longer than that, that most feeling is in the outermost part of the hole, etc)…
We often have fights about these things. Unfortunately once while I was trying to make him feel better, I ended up doing the opposite. He asked if I had ever been with smaller or bigger, and I answered honestly and said I had been with both, but that bigger wasn’t better because it often hurt because it would hit my cervix. He then asked if I had slept with this person multiple times, and when I answered “yes” he responded with “well it didn’t hurt that bad”. Since he thought I was lying and I felt like I had dug myself into a hole, I explained that it was my ex-boyfriend who I had been with for several years– my point being that that was the only reason I kept suffering through the pain, but the point he got was that I lost my virginity to some huge guy that he could never compare to.
I guess I’m not sure what I’m asking here specifically. Just a general, “help, what should I do?”
Not that it should matter much, but I am 21 and he’s 29.”
-Cindi
My Response On How He Can Get Accept His Penis Size And Get Over His Insecurity Over The Ex’s Penis Size
Hi Cindi,
Men can have a tough time when it comes to accepting our insecurities, and penis size is one of the biggest… (especially when it’s not one of the biggest…)
However, your boyfriend seems to be taking it a bit further then he needs to. In asking about penis size of previous people you had been with, he’s opening a door he shouldn’t have… especially now that he knows it’s an ex you had been with for years.
This is the same problem as asking how many people someone has had sex with… better left unasked, to be honest. It’s like, sure, you can hit yourself in the head with a hammer, too… but why?
There is no option but to accept how we are physically.
I’m short for a man, and I went bald at an early age. Still… I’ve worked to accept this.
Acceptance of “faults” is almost like a two steps forward, one step back process… sometimes I think I’m fully over things, and then something may happen that causes a moment of embarrassment or insecurity… however, over, with age has come the building of an unshakable (for the most part) confidence thanks to this constant working on acceptance.
Accept your penis size, whatever size that may be… get over it… live your life. You’re a man, you have a penis, testicles and testosterone. Look at dogs… a male pit bull is a mean ass little masculine beast, and look how small its penis is.
As to the trauma he opened up about your ex… think he’ll just have to accept this like everything else. If you really like him, be patient with him. Tell him you could care less about penis size (and that most women don’t), that he pleases you better than your last (whether it’s true or not), and he should get over it… if not, then hate to say it, but he’s probably dealing with other mental issues, and you have to consider what you want to do there…
He’s average… the vast majority of penis sizes in most large surveys are somewhere between 5 and 6 inches, or 5.5 to 6.5 inches… porn, and our friends’ BS bragging (usually lies) about penis size is what creates a skewed idea in our heads of what average is.
And average doesn’t mean bad… average means, normal. As in what the majority of other guys around him have.
Now, once we’ve established that, it’s up to you how you’d like to do, but for his confidence sake, maybe consider sharing with him the following information.
With manual penis enlargement techniques, he can add some size to his penis. Most men add about an inch or so in length, and can add a bit of girth. Some gain less, some gain more. I’ve written about them in my guide, here. They increase flaccid penis size, which helps with confidence as well.
As to your orgasm during sex, if he wants to give it to you during penetration, he can, regardless of this size:
He needs to go down on you for a bit before penetrating. It’s important to warm the clitoris up before penetrating, as the clitoris is responsible for the orgasm anyway.
Keeping this clitoris is key thing in mind, have him rub on your clitoris with his pelvis, hard, when penetrating in and out.
Learn to ride him… riding him allows you to control the type and speed of stimulation to your clitoris, and you may just need to discover what that type of stimulation is.
This should be a good start to set you in the right direction. Best of luck to you and him!
-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower Mr. Manpower’s Guide to Overall Manhood Enhancement
The Ultimate Sex Guide for Men… “male potency without drugs” www.MisterManpower.net david@mistermanpower.net
One man has an 8 inch penis when he is erect, but at this moment while flaccid, he is only 2.5 inches, somewhat shriveled and turtled up. He is a grower
