How To Get Over Penis Size Insecurity – Start The Process

Posted by David Carreras on January 11, 2011

how to get over penis size insecurity

I received this email today from a young lady whose boyfriend is insecure over his penis size, and has trouble getting over his penis size.

I answered her question the best I could…  This shines a light on issues many men face with penis size insecurity.

Her question:

“What to do when the man I love is so insecure about his penis size that it’s ruining our relationship?”

“Though we’ve had sex, for the longest time he would refuse to let me see it or touch it with my hands or put it in my mouth, the latter of which is something I really enjoy doing. After months of asking for it, he finally let me go down on him, and though he enjoyed it a lot, that’s when things started to fall apart. Immediately afterward he asked, “now do you understand why I never wanted you to do that?” and I was honestly dumbstruck. He is of average size and actually has a very attractive penis, and knows how to use it. His insecurity is baffling, but I can never seem to find the right words to explain this to him.

On an unrelated note, I’ve never in my life been able to have an orgasm (not just with him, but with anyone that isn’t myself). He takes this as a personal failure and considers himself even more inadequate as a result, though I’ve told him that it has nothing to do with HIM specifically. He insists that he can’t feel better about himself until he gives me an orgasm. This is somewhat understandable and I’ve told him what I like, but no– it has to be through penetration. My jaw dropped when he told me that; it’s a fact that only a small fraction of women can get off through penetration, and I KNOW I am NOT one of those women. He’s so ignorant of all these basic sex facts (the one mentioned, or that the average vagina is 4-6 inches long so it doesn’t make sense for the penis to be longer than that, that most feeling is in the outermost part of the hole, etc)…

We often have fights about these things. Unfortunately once while I was trying to make him feel better, I ended up doing the opposite. He asked if I had ever been with smaller or bigger, and I answered honestly and said I had been with both, but that bigger wasn’t better because it often hurt because it would hit my cervix. He then asked if I had slept with this person multiple times, and when I answered “yes” he responded with “well it didn’t hurt that bad”. Since he thought I was lying and I felt like I had dug myself into a hole, I explained that it was my ex-boyfriend who I had been with for several years– my point being that that was the only reason I kept suffering through the pain, but the point he got was that I lost my virginity to some huge guy that he could never compare to.

I guess I’m not sure what I’m asking here specifically. Just a general, “help, what should I do?”

Not that it should matter much, but I am 21 and he’s 29.”

-Cindi

My Response On How He Can Get Accept His Penis Size And Get Over His Insecurity Over The Ex’s Penis Size

Hi Cindi,

Men can have a tough time when it comes to accepting our insecurities, and penis size is one of the biggest… (especially when it’s not one of the biggest…)

However, your boyfriend seems to be taking it a bit further then he needs to. In asking about penis size of previous people you had been with, he’s opening a door he shouldn’t have… especially now that he knows it’s an ex you had been with for years.

This is the same problem as asking how many people someone has had sex with… better left unasked, to be honest. It’s like, sure, you can hit yourself in the head with a hammer, too… but why?

There is no option but to accept how we are physically.

I’m short for a man, and I went bald at an early age. Still… I’ve worked to accept this.

Acceptance of “faults” is almost like a two steps forward, one step back process… sometimes I think I’m fully over things, and then something may happen that causes a moment of embarrassment or insecurity… however, over, with age has come the building of an unshakable (for the most part) confidence thanks to this constant working on acceptance.

Accept your penis size, whatever size that may be… get over it… live your life. You’re a man, you have a penis, testicles and testosterone. Look at dogs… a male pit bull is a mean ass little masculine beast, and look how small its penis is.

As to the trauma he opened up about your ex… think he’ll just have to accept this like everything else. If you really like him, be patient with him. Tell him you could care less about penis size (and that most women don’t), that he pleases you better than your last (whether it’s true or not), and he should get over it… if not, then hate to say it, but he’s probably dealing with other mental issues, and you have to consider what you want to do there…

He’s average… the vast majority of penis sizes in most large surveys are somewhere between 5 and 6 inches, or 5.5 to 6.5 inches… porn, and our friends’ BS bragging (usually lies) about penis size is what creates a skewed idea in our heads of what average is.

And average doesn’t mean bad… average means, normal. As in what the majority of other guys around him have.

Now, once we’ve established that, it’s up to you how you’d like to do, but for his confidence sake, maybe consider sharing with him the following information.

With manual penis enlargement techniques, he can add some size to his penis. Most men add about an inch or so in length, and can add a bit of girth. Some gain less, some gain more. I’ve written about them in my guide, here. They increase flaccid penis size, which helps with confidence as well.

As to your orgasm during sex, if he wants to give it to you during penetration, he can, regardless of this size:

  • He needs to go down on you for a bit before penetrating. It’s important to warm the clitoris up before penetrating, as the clitoris is responsible for the orgasm anyway.
  • Keeping this clitoris is key thing in mind, have him rub on your clitoris with his pelvis, hard, when penetrating in and out.
  • Learn to ride him… riding him allows you to control the type and speed of stimulation to your clitoris, and you may just need to discover what that type of stimulation is.

This should be a good start to set you in the right direction. Best of luck to you and him!

-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement
The Ultimate Sex Guide for Men… “male potency without drugs”
www.MisterManpower.net
david@mistermanpower.net

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How to Stimulate a Woman’s Clitoris with Your Fingers / Manually

Posted by David Carreras on January 3, 2011

How to finger a woman

You can have a 6 foot Amazonian goddess in your bed, and be a 5’5″ man with a smaller than average penis size, and still be able to make her explode with delight and take complete command over her satisfaction, all with the touch of one tiny spot on her body… the clitoris.

While the clitoris, usually no larger than the size of a pencil eraser, is much smaller than the penis, it contains far more nerve endings to provide pleasure… packed into this one spot!

I generally speak on making a woman orgasm during penetration, or orally, but in this blog post I’m going to give you some tips on how to stimulate a woman’s clitoris with your fingers until orgasm…

Warm up the engine

Get her aroused before you touch her clitoris… touch every spot BUT the clitoris, so when you do touch it, it will be a fully-charged and powerful touch.

Suck on her nipples, kiss the inside of her thighs, finger her… rub on her clitoris over her clothes before you take them off…

Techniques for Manual Stimulation of the Clit:

Circles:

Put your index and middle fingers together and place them over the top of her clit.

Make sure her clitoris and your fingers are well lubricated, then rub her in slow, sexy circles. Vary your speed and pressure (not too hard) until you find something that drives her wild.

Many women masturbate exactly like this, so don’t be surprised if her body responds and she orgasms quickly.

You can easily do this from behind with her sitting between your legs, or lying side by side.

Up-and-Down:

Sandwich her clitoral hood in between your index and middle fingers and rub them up and down at a consistent speed. Keep your touch gentle!… the clitoris and all its surrounding areas are VERY sensitive to touch.

Thumbs up stimulation:

Stick your first two fingers in her vagina, and point your thumb up, resting on the clitoris.  Do circles on the clit with your thumb while fingering her… this should give her a POTENT orgasm… feel free to replace your thumb with your tongue on this one…

Tickle and tease the clitoris

The clitoris is sensitive to even the lightest touch. Gently run a feather or something else soft over her clitoris to drive her crazy.

Crescent moon

Stick your thumb in her Vagina and push against the upper wall with it, to put some stimulation on the G-spot.  Your palm should be the clitoris, so you can push down on it to provide pressure, which gives powerful stimulation…

Palm press

Lay on the side of her, and push the bottom of your palm slightly into her clit, with your fingers draped over her whole vagina.  Stick a finger or two into her vagina and stimulate the top wall/g-spot while lightly putting pressure on her clit with your palm

And keep the stimulation up!!

Toy around with these methods until you find one that really strikes a cord with your girl.  When you notice higher levels of arousal, keep that particular stimulation up, and DON’T CHANGE IT!

You may feel like switching it up slightly when she gets towards her orgasm, but you’ll just end up weakening and watering down her orgasm… stick to what got you there, and continue it on through her orgasm… and the next one, and so on and so forth until you’re both content with the outcome.

And if you’re looking for more ways to become a stronger, more knowledgeable lover as a man, see here…

Have a good one, my friend,

-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
Mr Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement
“the ultimate sex guide for men… male potency without drugs“
www.MisterManpower.net

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How To Get A Hung Penis – Whip It Out Anytime, No Shame!

Posted by David Carreras on December 9, 2010

how to get a hung penisGrowing up I always felt my penis was very undersized when soft.

Throughout the early days of my puberty I didn’t worry too much… I figured I was going to grow much more.

I accidentally seen my father’s penis one day when he was taking a shower and I had to go into the bathroom to get something.

My old man was hung.

So I figured it was just a matter of time before I got a hung penis myself… but if so, I had A LOT of growing to do.

My erect size was already fairly respectable by my mid-teens… but my flaccid penis size was embarrassingly weak still.  Late teens, gained a little more erect size, but flaccid penis was the same size as when I was 12!

By the time I hit my 20’s I said fuck it… I wasn’t going to grow anymore.  I was stuck with a tiny flaccid penis.

People might say, oh well, the flaccid size doesn’t matter, only the erect size counts.  But being a man, if you have a small flaccid penis, you may relate to the following shiity scenarios:

  • Hitting the showers after PE was a nightmare I avoided at all costs, including going to class all sweaty after…. imagine guys comparing themselves to me? They’d automatically feel they were physically more manly than me…
  • Pulling out my penis in front of a girl before it was “ready” was embarrassing too.  Having a sexual partner grab my flaccid penis out of the blue was an emasculating experience…
  • Getting out of the water at the pool or beach?
  • Peeing in urinals when next to one of those weirdos who has to look and compare (many times our own friends!)
  • Dancing close to a girl?  I used to move my penis around to shake it alive and try and get a semi, so she wouldn’t feel the little vienna sausage squishing around her butt… Serious shit… used to be self conscious as hell…

Don’t know if you can relate to all these things, but if you have a small flaccid penis size, you can probably at least see what I’m saying.

Good news is, if you’d like, there are ways to get a more hung penis when flaccid, even if you weren’t born that way.

Even though it probably goes against everything you believe (due to what most people, and your own mental limitations, tell you), you can permanently add inches to your erection, with manual techniques, that have been passed down for centuries, performed in various societies.

But this is, in all honesty, “esoteric” knowledge and not something openly discussed.  I’m not trying to make it seem like this is some secret society or something… but this information does exchange hands quite a bit “behind the scenes”.

I can prove to you that penis enlargement works (photo evidence, before and after results), but first I want to mention how these exercises have drastically increased the size of my flaccid penis.

In the process of adding over one-and-a-half more inches to my erection, and nearly an inch more in girth (circumference), my flaccid penis has become much longer, thicker, and heavier… This gives me much more confidence, and I get erections easier now because I have no shame in whipping out my penis and allowing women to play with it.

This lack of shame, actually more like the opposite, is excellent for my penis’s health and erection quality.

Doing cardio, sleeping well, staying hydrated and eating some complex carbs are all ways to help stay hung as well, which works well alongside the exercises.

For more information on how to get a hung penis with manual penis enlargement techniques, check this out…

Have a good one!!

-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement
The Ultimate Sex Guide for Men… “male potency without drugs”
david@mistermanpower.net

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Can Older Men Perform Penis Enlargement Exercises?

Posted by David Carreras on September 17, 2010

penis enlargement for older menI received a couple of good questions today.

First one:

CAN AN OLDER MAN PERFORM PENIS ENLARGEMENT EXERCISES?

“Hi there, will these penis enlargement exercises work for older men, say 60+ year olds? Really hope so. 

Regards,”

-Charles M
New Zealand

My response:

Yes, Charles, these penis enlargement exercises most definitely will work for 60+ year olds, and older men (hey, 60’s are the new 40s!).

Jelqing for older men is actually a great thing to do, as it brings some life back to the penis tissue. Jelqing strengthens erections and improves blood circulation, so it’s perfect for older men looking to combat age-related issues in the penis.

Besides the fact I’ve spoken with a number of men in their 60’s and up who’ve made excellent gains in the penis enlargement department (I can specifically recall a doctor in his 70’s who added more than 2 inches to his penis, and spoke about shocking other folks at the nude beach he frequents), I’ve also received feedback from several older men performing jelqing and other penis enlargement exercises found in my guide.

For instance, I once received this email from an older gentleman by the name of Rick who was doing penis enlargement. Rick was in his late 70s!:

“…I am doing the penis enlargement exercises often and regularly. My penis is now 6 inches soft on a regular basis and 8.5 to 9 when hard. These represent at least a 1.5 inch increase.

I am not sure about girth dimension but a few months ago I got a quick release cock ring and cut it to size – it now releases on its own when my cock is about to explode.

My wife is a bit of a puritan and does not mention the size of my cock but seems to now really enjoy vaginal intercourse. ”

-Rick S.
Jacksonville, FL

and I got this email from Jim C. who is 64 years old:

“Thanks for your latest info. As for me, I have been avidly using the program now for about 10-11 months. I really didn’t keep track from when I started until now, but I would say at erect length, I have gained about 3/4 inch. I have added a pump to the mix. I warm up, stretch and do the exercises for about 1/2 hour, and use the pump to keep it inflated for 1/2 hour, releasing it every 5 minutes to move it around, and let him breathe a little, haha. I do this 3-4 days a week.

I will be 64 in a month. Still as horny as ever. I have more erectile strength. My flaccid state is larger too, and when I do the exercises, I am bigger and heavier, which looks great. I feel that your program has done a lot for me, and wish I could have had this knowledge many years ago.

Who knows, maybe I would have that 8 inches like we all want. Erect size is 6 1/4 inches now. Used to be 5 1/2 or so back before I started your program. Girth is almost double of what it was. Thanks for all your guidance.”

-Jim C.
Kings Park, NY

So yes, these penis enlargement exercises will work for you, even if you are in your 60s and up.  And the erection benefits are the icing on the cake.

  • For more information on penis enlargement exercises for older men, younger men, men in general, see here!

Best regards,

David
Mistermanpower.net

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I also received this email:

Overcoming Premature Ejaculation Before Marriage

“Hi David,hope you well ive been reading a lot on this topic as I am getting married and I know that I am weak in bed (embarrassing)… I am being honest here, im in the same situation that you were in David and I really need your help, im not going into detail but you know what I mean, just I few strokes at time and im over the edge in seconds and I cant allow this to happen in my marriage, I really want to start these exercises but don’t know how, im asking that if you can help me the same way you have helped other, id really appreciate it fully!!! Stay well”

Keep my name anon please
South Africa

My response:

Premature ejaculation can be cured.

I thought I was always going to be a minute man, disappointing women until they left me (if they even stayed with me to start with!), and repeating the painful and humiliating experience over and over.

With the proper exercises and techniques, I easily last over an hour of non-stop penetration… I’ve helped numerous other men completely overcome their premature ejaculation as well.

Look around my site and see some of the feedback I’ve received from men who were able to overcome their premature ejaculation (among other cool sexual “feats”).

Regardless of how bad your premature ejaculation is, it can be cured…

  • If you’d like to learn how to last as long as you want during sex with ejaculation control exercises and techniques, click here…

Congrats on the marriage and enjoy it!

-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement
The Ultimate Sex Guide for Men… “male potency without drugs”
david@mistermanpower.net

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