Mental Block Erectile Dysfunction Overcome by Young Man

mental block erectile dysfunctionWhen I was about 18 or so, I had some pretty crappy experiences with what you can call “mental erectile dysfunction” (aka sexual performance anxiety, aka psychological ED)… pretty much a mental block to getting an erection.

I was with a new girlfriend that was very attractive, but not matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t get an erection…

That was my whole problem… I was trying too hard.

On a daily basis I receive questions from young men who cannot get an erection when it comes down time to have sex due to this mental block erectile dysfunction. These men often fear that they have a physical erection issue at an early age, when in reality, they are just experiencing a mental wall blocking their arousal.

Mental block ED has a couple of different causes, but can be overcome once and for all.

I received an email from a young lady the other day, about the problems she and her boyfriend are facing with this mental block.

I was happy to hear that they were able to resolve their problem.

Please see our email conversation below:

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“Hi, I have a 25 year old boyfriend which i have been with for two years and we are very comfortable with each other and love each other. We both have high sex drives and everything was fine until he began getting erection problems. He told me that he would get nervous just before having sex and thought that he would not be able to perform properly. he then got a “head rush” feeling, which then lead to him going soft within moments. As well as this, sometimes he would get erections, then when he is having sex with me it would go soft. naturally i would get upset, not with him but with the situation, but i feel bad cos i know it will make him more nervous. i try my best not to get upset. but what can he do to help him. i have said i am not going to get upset if it doesn’t work, and i try making him relax but it just still isnt working. we don’t see each other much but when we do we both know what is going to happen, (sex).

oh and another thing… the other day we met up but we was out in public the whole day he was horny and he kept getting a hard erection,but the next day it was completely the opposite. he wants to have sex and he has the perfect opportunity to, but he keeps going soft. its like when he knows he cant have it he gets hard erection but when he’s got it right in front of him he panics and goes soft before or even during sex.

we don’t really want to use medication because we have tried tablets like viagra and to be honest he kept wanting to use it. he will end up being dependant even if we only sometimes use it – he will want to use again. but i know that this problem is to do with his mind.

He smokes but said he will give up and 3 months ago stopped smoking cannabis He does not drink is a healthy weight.

Please could you give me some advice and tips or solutions for this. We would both be very grateful.

Thank you”

-Cassie
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My Reply:

Hello Cassie:

The problem your boyfriend is facing, men all over the world face this problem all the time.

He is placing too much pressure on the situation, and as you see (with his erections in public) it’s all in his head.

You can’t mentally “will” an erection to happen.  It’s a natural process that happens on it’s own.  He needs to get as horny as possible without thinking about his erection, and then it will come along on it’s own.

Send the links below to your boyfriend.  They should help him learn that men all over the world have experienced mental erectile dysfunction that keeps them from getting an erection.  Most men face this mental block erectile dysfunction at least once in their lifetime, usually early on their sex lives.  I did as well.  It can be overcome.

I helped this man with his mental block to getting an erection…  he was experiencing pretty much the exact same thing you and your man are going through.  This weekend he sent me an email with this feedback:

“This guide swiftly helped me with my problem. You made things seem so simple, I just took the advice from it and it seriously worked. I can’t tell you how thankful I am. My girlfriend was at her beach house, and her parents weren’t going to be there until later in the week. I stayed the night, and within a 12 hour span, we had sex 7 separate times!!! It was so amazing! I did as you said, I didn’t even think about my erection, I just went with the flow. You were completely right, it is all in your head. Now me and my girlfriend enjoy sex as often as we can! This guide really helped me through sex anxiety, it broke things down and made it seem easy to defeat. Thank you so much man, you have no idea how in debt i am to you. You’re the best.”

For some more information on how your man can overcome his performance anxiety and get his erections back to normal, send him an email with these links:

Have a good one!

-David
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement

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a few days later…

“Hey there! Its Cassie from the other day telling you about the problem my boyfriend was having. I showed him these links and since then when we got down to “things” it worked! Not only once, but 5 times in the space of about 4 hours. He also felt more confident knowing he is not the only man having these problems and has relaxed more with what pleasure he is receiving rather than concentrating on getting it up, which has helped him immensely to start to overcome this fear and thinking too much about getting it up. He seems more confident and relaxed now, and has made things a lot better between us. On the last time his erection went soft but I didn’t just say “yeah its ok” and turn over, I was still all over him and praising him which I think has made a difference too. Thank you so much for your help we appreciate it very much and we are glad you were of a great help to us! thank you!!!!!”

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No problem, Cassie… I’m very happy to hear that!

Keep up the “good work!”

-David
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement
The Ultimate Sex Guide for Men… “male potency without drugs”
www.MisterManpower.net
david@mistermanpower.net

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How To Increase Flaccid Hang – Get A Bigger Flaccid Penis Size

how to increase flaccid hangOne of the coolest benefits of penis enlargement exercises is the increase in flaccid hang and bigger size it will give you, starting out as early as the first week, and growing from there.

Of course, the holy grail of penis enlargement is a longer and thicker erection.

When we talk about the size of our penis, we generally refer to our erect size: “I’m 7 inches“. But not so much our flaccid penis size.

But being hung with a bigger flaccid size is pretty damn cool, for several reasons:

  • You fill out your pants more
  • You have a larger bulge
  • You feel larger, heavier, in a masculine/sexual way
  • Women think you have a big penis based on the flaccid size, even if the erect size is not any larger than average
  • Dancing is a ball… women react this larger hang and size
  • Being “hung” brings with it some confidence

And with an average flaccid penis size of 3.5 inches, you’ll see that most men are not that large when soft.

Embarrassment Over My Small Flaccid Penis Size Started Early

I remember my first time doing something sexual.

I was 12 years old, and just had my first kiss with a girl named Christy. Christy was in 8th grade, and I was in 7th, so it was so amazing doing something with an “older woman”.

Christy had developed quickly, and was pretty “busty”, so me and my other pre-teen friends would slobber over her when she’d walk by.

And for some reason, she liked me. I heard it through the grapevine, and a mutual friend hooked us up.

The first kiss was at the school fair, and I wasn’t prepared… we went for a walk to a nearby secluded area, and she just jumped on me, and started making out. It felt amazing. So much going on in our mouths, so much bliss. It felt like heaven. For me, I had already taken a massive step forward in my life.

But the forward progress didn’t stop there. It jumped forward exponentially.

One week later, we went to the movies with a pair of friends. During the movie, I thought we would just kiss, but then she grabbed my hand, and put it on her tit! I was petrified, but at the same time, overly excited.

I honestly was not ready…

She then opened my belt, went into my pants, and started tugging on my extremely small flaccid member, that seemed to be trying to hide from her.

While very excited about what was going on, I had an extreme embarrassment over my small flaccid penis, which only seemed to shrink up more thanks to my anxiety.

Luckily, in a couple more outings, I became comfortable with Christy, and my erection started working with her, and we actually ended up having sex!

Talk about a big jump, from first kiss to first fuck in just a couple weeks!

I wouldn’t take it back if I could…

But The Embarrassment and Small Penis Anxiety Didn’t Stop At This Age… Puberty Did Not Help To Increase My Flaccid Hang and Size

As I got older, I had hoped that my flaccid penis would increase in size, but it didn’t.

As a legal adult already, my flaccid penis wasn’t much larger than it was when I was 12, embarrassingly enough.

My erection was close to 6 inches, and had a decent girth, but I still had nothing but a little stub for a penis when it was soft.

When about 19 I picked up a girl I had just started dating.  Jennifer… she was half Colombian, half Puerto Rican, and gorgeous… caramel skin, big tits, tall… when we’d go out, grown men would ogle her in front of their wives…

She lived a bit away, but was worth the 45 minute trip.

On one of our first dates, I picked her up, and when in the car, she started reaching in my pants. My penis was far from “ready”, and I felt her hand engulf my baby-sized flaccid dick.

Luckily, she liked me enough to overlook this (as most girls do— they generally understand, flaccid penis size does not correlate with erect size), but it didn’t save me from feeling a deep shame. I would have felt WAY better with a big, hanging flaccid…

Same thing happened to me at 19 as when I was 12… my penis came up short when it was supposed to impress.

Tired of Embarrassing Events, I Took To Penis Enlargement Exercises, And Learned How To Increase Flaccid Penis Size & Hang Quickly

How to increase flaccid hangExperiences like this lead me to click on those “early internet” ads of a guy standing with a small flaccid penis in the before photo, and an after photo of the same man with a much larger, hanging flaccid penis. Part of me had hoped it was photoshopped, and that a penis couldn’t grow that large (out of envy)… but I had hopes that it might work.

I learned some basic penis enlargement exercises, and noticed something cool.

While trying to increase the size of my erection, my flaccid penis length, girth, and hang had slightly increased… In just a matter of a week.

It wasn’t anything out of this world, but definitely noticeable (I also began experiencing harder erections). And coming from a place where I used to have half of a vienna sausage, having something a bit longer, heavier and hanging a week later was a great feeling.

Then in time, with some research, practice and observation, I not only learned to increase my erection by more than an inch and a half (and added some girth), but I greatly increased my flaccid size and hang naturally as well.

Since making these great gains, I’ve dedicated quite a bit of time to learning about penis enlargement to make my flaccid penis bigger.

6 Tips To Get A Bigger Flaccid Size With Penis Enlargement Exercises

There are a few rules of thumb if you want to become a show-er with natural penis enlargement exercises. Some of these include:

  • Warming up sufficiently, and for a good while, until your penis is loose and pliable. Heat increases the ability of tissue to be lengthened. Don’t skimp on the warmup.
  • Rather than pulling your penis as hard as you can during stretches, just get a good stretch till you feel that moderate “burn” in the ligaments, and then hold in place for a good while.
  • When jelqing, don’t squeeze as hard as you can on your grip. Get a fair grip, and increase the number of repetitions (at least 100).
  • Work on some of the “inner penis” by starting a jelq BEHIND the testicles… just a few is okay. This brings inner bloodflow to the outter penis. Good to do early in the routine.
  • Jelq your penis with at least some “life” to it. Don’t do it with a completely flaccid penis. Jelq some blood into the penis every 20 or so reps. Thinking of or seeing something arousing helps to bring some life to the penis before starting the routine.
  • Perform penis enlargement for a few days consecutively, make sure to give it a break day every 3 or 4 days.
  • Warm down… seems to “cement” what you did during the exercises. Once again, don’t take shortcuts here.

Increasing flaccid penis size has always been the best part of penis enlargement for me. A larger erection has made me more effective in bed, but a bigger flaccid penis size has been a major confidence boost.

  • For a more in-depth guide to penis enlargement exercises that work to greatly increase your flaccid penis size, weight and hang, see here!

Any question, you can reach me here: david@mistermanpower.net

Have a good one!

-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement
The Ultimate Sex Guide for Men… “male potency without drugs”
www.MisterManpower.net

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Penis Enlargement Works – Don’t Be Scared, Jump In!

How to make your penis largerI remember when I first started out doing natural penis enlargement…

I was scared that I was going to break my penis or something…

It just made sense that it would happen… if you ever got kicked in the penis as a child (or maybe as an adult!), you’d remember it hurt like hell… Lord forbid you get it trapped in your zipper (à la Something About Mary)…that would be a nightmare… I felt Ben Stiller’s pain.

Or ever have real rough sex, with the girl riding, and heard — and felt! — a cracking in your penis? I remember that happening to me a couple of times in the early days of my sex life… I was positive I had “broken my dick”.

Luckily, our penis is one resilient mofo… you can pull the hell out of it. “Super engorge” it beyond it’s max with pumps. Hang weights from it.

And you know what happens? Does it break off?

No.

Your Penis Doesn’t “Break”… It Actually Increases In Size…

How can I increase the length of my penisIf you follow the proper instructions, that is.

You don’t want to just jump right in without learning the basics at least, but I myself have added more than an inch and a half to the length of my erection, have a much thicker rod, harder erections, and a bigger, hanging flaccid penis.

All thanks to natural penis enlargement exercises.

And I’m not scared at all to beat my penis up in the process.

I’ve tried weight hangers before… I actually experienced some pretty decent results (maybe a quick quarter inch gain in erect length?), but quickly had to cut it out because I had a live-in girlfriend… And if she ever would have seen that contraption, along with the rope, hook, weight, gallon of water… she probably would have thought I was nuts.

However, things like hanging 25 pounds off of my dick showed me I had nothing to be afraid of.

I don’t have fear any more… but I still have RESPECT for my penis.

It’s All About Taking The Proper Penis Enlargement Precautions

You want to make sure you warm up your penis sufficiently… whether it be under hot water in the shower, with a heat pad, or a warm rice sock (just that, sock filled with raw rice, throw in microwave for a few seconds)… this makes your penis nice and malleable.

You obviously don’t want to try and RIP YOUR PENIS OFF (although — AND DON’T TEST THIS OUT!! — if you were to try, I’d bet it’d be damn near impossible to do)!

It’s all about stretching until you feel a nice burn in the ligaments (the ligs that hold your penis to your body – by the way… did you know you have a whole bunch of extra penis on the inside of you?).

It’s about “listening” to your body… if your penis is saying “CHILL”… than take it easy, or stop, or take a break for a few days.

Also, it’s about easing into the penis enlargement exercises. You don’t want to jump into the real heavy stuff before your penis has become accustomed.

Start off with simple exercises, before you jump into more advanced penis enlargement techniques.

Don’t Believe Penis Enlargement Works?

Did Jelqing Work For You?I don’t blame you… in this con-artist filled world, it would make sense… penis enlargement is just one more scam (and believe it or not, in the area of penis enlargement, there are number of scams – pills and creams -, and more than one thing that actually DOES work.).

It’s smart to be skeptical… you don’t want to be gullible and believe everything you hear.

I’ve had “a fast one” pulled on me more than a couple of times in my life due to being overly trusting, and I’d consider myself a smart enough dude.

Also, even though I was able to increase my own penis pretty quickly after applying the techniques, it wasn’t until I measured WELL BEYOND an extra inch before I strongly believed it worked (it was amazing passing that 7 inch mark, when I had started out with just under 6 inches).

Up until passing 7 inches, I was convinced that I wasn’t measuring correctly, or that my eyes were possibly playing tricks on me.

If you’d like to add a bit more length and girth to your member, just open your mind…. Take baby steps if you’d like.

  • And if you need photographic proof that you can make your penis bigger, see here.
  • If you’d like to see some science that supports penis enlargement, see here.

Tried Natural Penis Enlargement, But It Didn’t Work For You?

Some men, a very small percentage, don’t seem to gain any size…

Don’t know why. Could be the collagenous makeup of their corpora cavernosa, could be inflexible or rigid ligaments, could be they just didn’t properly apply the techniques!

However, MOST MEN DO GAIN!

Either way, if you’d like to learn penis enlargement the right way, you can consider me an ancient scholar… a man who’s been around since the early days of the internet, when the original, non-watered down penis enlargement techniques were taught… too much extra BS now-a-days, and too many crucial steps that have been forgotten about and overlooked.

For my own personal guide to penis enlargement, see here: How to Make Your Penis Bigger

And if you have any questions, shoot me an email. I’ll be happy to help.

Have a good one!

-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement
The Ultimate Sex Guide for Men… “male potency without drugs”
www.MisterManpower.net

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Fastest Way To Increase Penis Size – Four Options

how to increase penis size quickly

People want results NOW. They want to lose 20 pounds in 30 days. They want to look younger overnight. Same goes for penis size… if penis enlargement is possible… they want to make their penis bigger FAST.

As to overnight results, there really is only one penis enlargement method that will give you a remarkably bigger penis within 24 hours. But if not possible, there are 3 other options that are quick enough.

Phalloplasty – A Fast Solution To Increasing Penis Size, But With Drawbacks

Penis enlargement surgery, called phalloplasty, can be done one of two ways. You can either go for length, or for girth.

When going to increase length, surgeons cut some ligaments that hold some “inner penis“, making it outer, visible, usable penis.

If working to increase penis girth (which also works to make flaccid hang larger), than there is another surgery where fat tissue is transferred to the penis, making it thicker.

This is by far the quickest and easiest way to increase penis size, but it is expensive.

A few hours into surgery, and you walk out with a bigger penis. Of course, there’s the healing to do, but it takes very little effort on your part.

But it also takes risk. A decent percentage of men are left with less than perfect erectile function.

This is not a surgery you want to be cheap on. This surgery requires a high level of skill. Germany has come to be known as the capital of the world when it comes to penis enlargement, with some of the most skillful surgeons in the world. So if money isn’t an issue, and you want a bigger penis, consider buying an airline ticket and paying for hotel stay in Germany, and paying $10,000+ for the top surgeons at the German Center for Urology and Phalloplastic Surgery to enlarge your penis.

Priapus – Increase Penis Size Quickly With A Shot

The Priapus shot is a relatively new method of penis enlargement that involves injecting blood platelets enriched plasma into the shaft of the penis, which “encourages and stimulates the body’s natural healing and restoration process”.

Many reputable surgical centers perform the procedure, and it runs somewhere between $1,500 and $2,000. It claims to add about half an inch in length, and the same in girth (although some men have reported to have gained nothing). Results begin to show over the course of a few weeks, and last somewhere between 8 months and a year.

Natural Penis Enlargement Exercises – Fairly Quick, But Require Effort

If ready to put a little time in, you can make some pretty amazing gains from manual penis enlargement exercises, and in a fairly short amount of time.

While some men have made gains of an inch in under 30 days, this is not the norm…. But gains like this can prove inspirational.

I was able to gain an entire inch, but it took me about 6 months of applying myself pretty dutifully. After that point, gains slowed a bit, but I gained a bit more than half an inch since then, with a much more lax routine. I have noticed my flaccid size continues to gain though, and girth gains still astound me to this day.

The quickest gains you’ll see is in your flaccid size. That will happen within the first week.

Weight Hangers – Effective For Quick Length Gains, Bit Scary to Use

Weight hangers work well to increase penis length. They seem a bit scary to use (you need to hang at least 10 pounds from your penis before you start making some gains – 20+ pounds to make serious gains), and require significant privacy and time, but many men swear by hangers… especially some of the men who have gained the most in length.

Extension devices have been shown to increase penis size as well, but to a lesser extent.

A Bigger Penis in Less Time

When it comes to increasing penis size, luckily, there are a few options that actually work. And whether you are paying for a medical solution, or applying a more natural technique on your own, you can see some significant penis size gains, and in short time.

The one I know most about, and have applied the most time to, are manual penis enlargement exercises.  For my own guide to manual penis enlargement exercises, see here…

-David Carreras aka Mr. Manpower
Mr. Manpower’s Guide to
Overall Manhood Enhancement
www.mistermanpower.net

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